Supporting children’s understanding of personal safety in ECEC
Learn how 3 ECEC services approach personal safety education and embed age-appropriate strategies in their daily practice.
16 October 2025
Teaching children about personal safety from an early age is a critical part of early childhood education and care (ECEC). When services embed personal safety into everyday routines and have early, age-appropriate conversations, children develop the knowledge, confidence and skills to recognise unsafe situations, respond appropriately and seek help when needed.
Understanding personal safety and protective behaviours
vlog around personal safety helps children understand body autonomy, identify unsafe interactions and respond when they feel uncomfortable or threatened. Protective behaviours such as recognising unsafe touch, setting and maintaining personal boundaries, and seeking help from trusted adults are practices services can embed into everyday routines. These behaviours empower children to act on their instincts and express their feelings.
Early conversations about personal safety lay the foundation for children to understand their rights and boundaries.
In a recent interview about body safety, Heidi Cormie, Nominated Supervisor at Coonamble Preschool, shared, “Every conversation about personal safety contributes to the prevention of childhood sexual abuse and is an investment in our children’s safety.”
Similarly, Nicole Delbridge, Director of Rainbow Preschool Broken Hill, explained, “We focus on teaching children to listen to their bodies and trust their instincts, so they know it’s okay to speak up if something doesn’t feel right.”
Brooke Field, Nominated Supervisor at East Gosford Early Learning echoed these sentiments, sharing that early conversations “lay the foundation for body autonomy and self-advocacy as children grow”.
Recognising unsafe situations
Children should be supported to recognise both physical and emotional warning signs. These may include feelings of discomfort such as a racing heartbeat, wobbly knees or a sick stomach, as well as emotions like confusion, nervousness or fear. Educators play a key role in helping children identify and recognise early signs and practise responding in safe and supported ways.
Early age-appropriate conversations are important as unsafe interactions are not always obvious and can involve people that children know.
Below are examples of strategies services can use to support children to understand personal safety and recognise unsafe situations.
- Story-based learning. Use age-appropriate books – such as the by the NSW Office of the Children’s Guardian (OCG) for children under 6, Jayneen Sanders’ or My Body, My Rules by Nicki Esler Gill – to explore safety scenarios with children. Educators can pause to discuss options and guide children in practising responses, helping them distinguish between safe surprises and secrets that should be shared with a trusted adult.
- Interactive games and role-play. Provide opportunities to rehearse protective behaviours and practise phrases like, “Stop, I don’t like it”, as well as their right to say “no” in guided scenarios. Educators can model and encourage these phrases to help children build confidence to use their voice in real situations.
- Creative expression. Encourage children to express their feelings, experiences and strategies through drawing, storytelling or craft activities. Using a variety of activities can support children with different communication styles or additional needs to speak up.
- Small group discussions and reflective conversations. Create regular spaces for children to explore safety topics, discuss warning signs and reinforce protective behaviours, embedding these into daily routines. By doing this, children learn that personal safety is an everyday priority, not just a topic for occasional lessons.
- Help children to identify their trusted adults. Children should be guided to seek support from adults they trust and identify who to go to in an emergency. Maintaining consistent educator presence can also be helpful in allowing children to practise seeking help and receive immediate, supportive responses.
- Implement child-focused reporting. Centring children’s needs and safety is critical in a complaint handling process. Ensuring children’s voices are taken seriously will allow unsafe situations to be acted upon sooner rather than later. Read our article on developing and implementing a child-focused process for reporting concerns for more tips.
Practice examples
Located in rural and remote NSW, Coonamble Preschool is a community-based, not-for-profit preschool that welcomes children aged 3-5 years. Personal safety education is a central part of the preschool’s program.
The preschool’s Body Safety vlog program supports children to learn about the 5 body safety rules in age-appropriate ways, which Nominated Supervisor Heidi Cormie described as:
- learning the correct names for body parts
- understanding safe and unsafe touch
- recognising early warning signs
- knowing the difference between secrets and happy surprises
- identifying trusted adults in their safety network.
The program is closely aligned with the , particularly . Educators at the preschool are supported to consider body safety when helping children develop strategies that support their health, wellbeing and personal safety.
Educators use resources such as the OCG’s and to make these concepts engaging and accessible.
“These ideas are reinforced through play-based learning,” Heidi said. “For example, after reading Jayneen Sanders’ story on secrets and surprises, children play a game where they move to a happy or worried face depending on the scenario.”
“Educators also model and practise phrases such as, ‘No, this is my body and I say what goes,’ so children feel confident to respond to unsafe interactions and seek help from a trusted adult.”
Families are engaged through annual letters, daybooks and displays of children’s work. Heidi explains that children often take home activities they’ve done at the service, such as drawings of trusted people in their safety network.
“We encourage families to display these on the fridge or on a surface in sight of family members and visitors,” Heidi said. “They are great conversation starters for discussing child safety at home.”
To inform its work, Coonamble Preschool embeds child safety education webinars such as CELA’s into its staff induction, ensuring educators have the relevant understanding and guidance to have age-appropriate conversations with the children in their care.
Rainbow Preschool, a community-based service in Far West NSW, centres its philosophy on empowering children to be active participants in their own learning and safety. This focus on recognising their voices and fostering trusting relationships with educators guides the preschool’s approach to teaching personal safety and protective behaviours.
Director Nicole Delbridge explained that personal safety is embedded throughout the service’s daily program. Educators also use the OCG’s , alongside the Child Safe Standards and the to inform their practice.
The service engages children through short, age-appropriate storytelling in which characters face safety challenges. Educators pause to ask, “What could the character do?”, encouraging children to think critically, practise responding to uncomfortable situations and use protective language such as, “Stop, I don’t like it.”
Safety concepts are also reinforced across everyday routines, including indoor and outdoor play, bathrooms, small group activities and excursions supporting children to apply their learning in real-world contexts.
“Prioritising children’s voices is central to the program,” Nicole said. “For example, small group discussions allow children to share ideas about safety, co-develop safety agreements, and explore what safe and unsafe situations look and feel like.”
“We create spaces and opportunities for children to express their ideas, feelings and emotions across all environments in accessible ways, such as creative arts. Children illustrate their thoughts through individual drawings and reflect on warning signs they see in themselves and others.”
Educators at the service participate in ongoing professional development, including the course delivered by CELA, and receive guidance on embedding body safety education into daily routines.
The service also actively engages with its local community, inviting emergency services and NSW Police to the service to help children learn about personal safety and strengthen staff knowledge and confidence.
Nicole encourages other services to prioritise regular training, nurture strong relationships with children, hold open conversations about safety and reflect on the effectiveness of their approaches.
East Gosford Early Learning carefully adapts its approach to personal safety to suit children across different developmental stages.
Nominated Supervisor Brooke Field emphasised the importance of introducing the concept of personal safety early. This is an embedded practice in the service that is supported by educators and educational leaders, Irena and Bonnie.
“Starting personal safety discussions at a young age helps children recognise their feelings, understand boundaries and know who to turn to if they ever feel unsafe,” Brooke said.
“It lays the foundation for self-advocacy as they grow.”
This can be done by having conversations with children about scenarios where they might need help from emergency services.
“Children are taught to call the police if they ever feel unsafe,” Irena said.
“The children are confident in labelling what ECEC service they attend and are taught what phone number to call in an emergency. This is practised quarterly during evacuation and lock down drills.”
Personal safety is also embedded into daily routines. Indoor and outdoor play, transitions and small group discussions provide ongoing opportunities for children to recognise warning signs and practise protective behaviours.
Educators use a variety of resources to help older children understand their bodies and recognise unsafe situations. In particular, Bonnie shared that the book My Body, My Rules by Nikki Esler-Gill has been useful in helping children learn about positive body boundaries.
“By consistently using anatomically correct language, children are able to understand and communicate clearly about their bodies,” Bonnie said.
For infants and toddlers, the focus is on observation, responding to comfort levels and establishing trust through everyday routines. Educators pay close attention to non-verbal cues, ensuring children feel safe and supported in their early interactions.
Engaging staff in professional development is a priority for the service and supports educators to keep their child protection knowledge current.
“After participating in the Behaviour Management and Trauma-Informed Care workshops run by Engaging Curriculum Solutions, we have seen positive improvements in our practice, such as creating a calm classroom environment and conducting regular emotional check-ins with the children,” Brooke said.
Irena also noted the usefulness of the OCG’s in providing ongoing reflection and identifying areas for improvement.
Ultimately, Brooke said strong, trusting relationships with children are the foundation of personal safety education. She also encourages services to “start with what children already understand, build on that foundation and draw on available resources and professional development to support meaningful learning."
Tips for services
Developing a strong approach to personal safety starts with a culture where routines and processes are developed around supporting children’s rights and safety.
ECEC services can start by introducing age-appropriate language and gradually incorporating personal safety concepts into everyday activities, including play, transitions and group discussions.
- “Don’t reinvent the wheel. Use existing quality resources and begin. Set yourself small goals, for example, introduce the concept of a body boundary and explore this with children. Then reflect on the effectiveness of your approaches and continue the conversations.” – Coonamble Preschool
- “Prioritise professional development and nurturing trusting relationships so children feel confident to speak up. Ongoing educator training and reflective practice are key to embedding protective behaviours across the service.” – Rainbow Preschool Broken Hill
- “Explore what children already understand, then layer on strategies with available resources and training opportunities. This will allow services to design practices around what best suits each service context.” – East Gosford Early Learning
Consistent conversation, modelling protective language and providing children with opportunities to practise skills in real-life scenarios create an environment where children understand their rights, feel safe and are empowered to use their voice.
NSW Early Learning Commission
- Child Safety Regulatory Priority Program
- Child Safe Standards and Implementing the Child Safe Standards resource suite
- Child protection units and resources for school-aged children
- Child safe resources
NSW Office of the Children's Guardian
Bravehearts
National Office for Child Safety
United Nations
- NSW Early Learning Commission
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